Time to reveal the true secret to my life. I've always hid this from people, and I guess now I feel like I should tell everyone about it. Well, I've been in multiple long-distance relationships.
Living in Jacksonville and watching Marines take the girls around here make one-of-a-kind people like me kinda lonely. It was kinda that time to pull it off back in the 2008-2010 part of my life. I'll tell you what. The feelings are strong and true, and it gave me someone to talk to all day when I was lonely. Only thing is, I just wished she were there to really cheer me up. In the end, it never happened, and thus, it never worked out.
I'm going to say that I've been in 3 of them. Not going to say anyone's names like last time, I'll just go by experience with that girl.
Girl A: This girl was pretty hot. God she was gorgeous! She lived near LA so I figured she was pretty damn hot. I think she was the only girl I've ever had a picture of as my phone background. She and I were talking on AIM a few times a week, then we started texting. After just a day of texting, she surprised me by asking me out. Of course, being grounded sucked, and I had a phone to mess with (this was back in high school by the way) so I figured why not? She's really cute, even sweeter, and I like texting! This relationship, however, failed after a few weeks because she cheated on me. I just love how a month after I broke up with her, she breaks up with her boyfriend, then she tries to get me back again. It just shows that some girls HAVE to have a boyfriend at all times I suppose.
Girl B: This girl was also gorgeous! I guess I'll say she had a nice rack. She and I had been buddies for like a year. She had a boyfriend when I met her, and didn't even think about her and I even being together in the first place. Well, a month after her being dumped, she and I kinda got closer. Well, I kinda asked her out after a while. After she said yes, I thought that at the time, she was the sweetest thing to ever be in my heart. Even though she lived in Winnipeg, I still snuck the house phone into my room and we talked on the phone for like an hour at a time. Things were just perfect! After four months, I guess the relationship got kinda stale, and we just had to break it off, I felt that if I dumped her, then she'd be happy again, and I was right. She kinda changed before I stopped talking to her completely. She went from being cheerful to being super boring and judgmental. I just couldn't stand it. Oh well. Things happen, right?
Girl C: Lots to say about her. She was really popular when she was in chat rooms. I joined a forum website with some chat built in, and we met there. I kinda knew who she was before, but never talked, until then. We talked a lot for an entire week, then I felt something for her. I didn't think she'd even like me! After she literally asked me out, I'll be brutally honest with everyone. I fell in love with her! She and I were so compatible, that I had many dreams to marry her, but she lived in Toronto, and I lived all the way down here, so it was kinda hopeless. Things just got better and better, but she had her own personal problems. After just over five months together, she broke up with me for pretty much no reason. Let me say that I was so heartbroken. I had such love for her, and we just kept talking to each other. We were best friends since, and we promised that if we ever met, that we'd go on a date as if we were a couple. Of course, that never happened, and then life moved on for the both of us. It was so difficult to say goodbye to her despite being her best friend. Thing is, if I could just pick any soulmate right now, it'd be her, but all good things must come to an end.
Each relationship had a few things in common, but one thing that stuck out like a green thumb. The fact that they never worked out for me. Now I'll say this, though. It could work out. You just need a crap ton of money, which I never had. Plane tickets to see your partner now and again, a phone with unlimited everything, and access to good internet. However, I don't believe that long-distance relationships solve any problems. They'll only temporarily fix solution for a certain period of time. I guess if you want the experience on how to love someone, you can try it. However, a soulmate exists for you in every area in the world. Remember! Climates change, and when they do, so does your soulmate!
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